Some morning-after personal thoughts and dilemmas around the election
by: Dave Belden on November 3rd, 2010 | 9 Comments »
I am writing here as a rank-and-file member, not a leader, in the political struggle. My internal monologues may or may not speak to others who, like me, are highly attracted to Michael Lerner’s vision but are not so adept at carrying it out. Like many of us I have a love-hate relationship with electoral politics.
- Love the people who fought tooth and nail for us to have votes and political rights.
- Aware that the power elites fought those heroes and lost some major battles to them. The power elite wanted to pursue their wars with our money as they pleased (Charles I got into a spat with Parliament about that and lost his head), wanted the slaves to stay slaves, wanted to make their money any way they pleased and let us go to the wall (and so called every promoter of trade unions, safety regulations and nets, everyone who cared about the powerless, “Commies” and “enemies of freedom”).
- But also aware that electoral politics function as a safety valve for the power elite, enabling them to concede some big battles while winning the war. (They ridiculed FDR for saying his New Deal would save America from socialism and fought him hard, but of course he was right, it did. They waited a good long while before mounting an all-out effort to reclaim their privileges, and they haven’t taken us all the way back there yet, as my official What You Will Get From Social Security letters promise me).
- Aware that life is compromise and innumerable ordinary lives like mine have been made safer and better from progressive legislation passed after elections were won.
- Hate the way money and media manipulation work on our fears, while our vision and hope is ridiculed.
- Love the Michael Lerner / Peter Gabel approach to this in their many editorials, articles and books (which is why I am here). They advocate shifting the emotional tone of the Left away from anger, bitterness, demonization of opponents (including contempt for working class religious people), and appeals to purely materialistic issues — however well justified that tone may be — and towards an understanding of people’s deeper longings for meaning, for a caring society more even than for a wealthy one, for honesty in politics, for vision of what could be, for appeals to hope and cooperation. They believe this would actually work, politically. I agree. It would. But it’s just too radical for the Left.
- Am baffled by our human tendency, including my own, towards rejecting the spiritual wisdom of the ages. Don’t we all deep down know that a primary focus on how we have been wronged is not as healthy as a focus on how we could hear the other’s pain and how we could love and work with the other? Don’t we know that happiness actually derives, once one’s most basic needs are met, from giving more than from receiving? Given our frequent inability to act on these insights, should I be spending my time on electoral politics when I could be learning and teaching the kind of spiritual wisdom without which electoral politics is doomed to cycles of partisanship?
- Listen, bub, past progressive wins have demonstrated that in fact people can and do respond to vision and hope over fear and loathing, even without them all becoming spiritually enlightened people.
- Or maybe it is that at specific historical periods there has been just enough spiritual enlightenment of all kinds (politically aware or not) going on to enable those appeals to work (without all the spiritual teaching and learning out there, it wouldn’t happen — e.g., without Methodism and the evangelical awakenings and the slaves’ own spiritual practices, no abolition of slavery: is that right?).
- So should I personally be working at the individual and small group spiritual end of that (in my case probably my UU congregation that I’m neglecting) or at the electoral visionary ideas end (Tikkun and the NSP)? Whichever I’m best at, I guess, or most drawn to. And right now that’s Tikkun, where I am attempting to learn what Michael Lerner can teach, which is huge and actually not at all easy for an old countercultural, lefty, agnostic, cooperative individualist with a sociology PhD to absorb. I am finding it hard intellectual and psychological/spiritual work.
- So back to how I vote: I want to vote for a good and radical third party
- But I’m aware that the first effect of a popular third party would be to split the left/liberal vote and enable the big money boys (neoliberal Republicans) and their enablers (libertarians, swearing all along that all they want is freedom for the individual, while their votes enable big money to enslave the country) to win. And then they create such horror (Bush) that we are all susceptible to just voting them out when a likeable neoliberal Democratic guy talking of hope comes along (Obama). I had an Obama sticker on my bike, I worked the phones for him, even though I feared Andrew Sullivan was right in this 2007 Atlantic piece, that he was a thorough centrist (and that his real appeal to the young and the center was simultaneously his progressivist appeal to hope and his centrist promise that “he could take America – finally – past the debilitating, self-perpetuating family quarrel of the Baby Boom generation that has long engulfed all of us”). Guilty. But then I think, with many of us, that what he’s done is way better than what McCain would have done (here’s Rachel Maddow’s argument for that case) … unless you buy the idea that things have to spiral down and down before the masses swing to progressive politicians. Do we need more wars, unemployment, inequality, loss of safety nets, before radical socialist ideas can revive? Perhaps we do. But it’s hard to believe it, in the absence of strong progressive political leaders and grassroots movements. Maybe the times will create those leaders and movements, if the times get bad enough. Or maybe it’s fascism that will appeal instead, as in Germany in the 20s and 30s. So let’s be safe, and vote the neoliberal Democrat.
- I do not know what to do about this cycle, other than help build grassroots movements that see it, hate it, reject it, and start creating radical alternatives based on love. That’s what I want to do. But the friends of mine who do that best, who really get people of different races and classes in deep connection with each other and working for the common good, don’t get involved in electoral politics at all: Washington DC is irrelevant to their work in inner city hell. Friends of mine whose restorative justice work could end the prison system as we know it, and who do depend on elected liberal DAs, judges and other city officials, are nonetheless in a phase of primarily building the programs and the evidence that they work. There is a lot of preliminary work to be done in building movements from the bottom up, before you get to put a huge amount of energy into the electoral end of it. So if I join them it feels to me like going back into the counterculture, where I’ve been all my adult life in spirit if not in practice (after counterculture immersion in food politics and cooperatives in my 20s I retreated to self healing in my 30s and 40s through love, family, manual labor, writing science fiction and eventually finding a spiritual community, then awakened to the need to be a responsible citizen to make sure a Bush is never elected again, at which point I joined the Network of Spiritual Progressives). It’s a cycle.
I’m learning. It’s a cycle but I think I am on an upward spiral of learning rather than just going in circles. I hope that the wider progressive and spiritual cultures are as well. I think we have major catastrophes and hard times to come and we need to learn all we can to be ready for them. Does this sound anything like what you are learning? Are you on this same kind of spiral, though maybe in a very place on it? How do we bring forward an electoral politics based on convincing and real appeals to hope and cooperation, not so much to fear and loathing? The answer is: read Michael Lerner’s post on HuffPost this morning! (now posted here too).



Dave Belden writes: I love the Michael Lerner / Peter Gabel approach to this in their many editorials, articles and books (which is why I am here). They advocate shifting the emotional tone of the Left away from anger, bitterness, demonization of opponents (including contempt for working class religious people), and appeals to purely materialistic issues – however well justified that tone may be – and towards an understanding of people’s deeper longings for meaning, for a caring society more even than for a wealthy one, for honesty in politics, for vision of what could be, for appeals to hope and cooperation. They believe this would actually work, politically. I agree. It would. But it’s just too radical for the Left.
I “love” the end of this offensive statement , to wit that this Ghandian bullshit is “too radical for the Left”. How patronising and subtlety condescending to us angry Leftists. “Obviously” you spiritual” types are morally superior to me and other angry people.!! I mean, it’s sooooo obvious!! If only I were as “loving” as Dave belden and all the other contributors here, who can only sigh beatifically at the fact that I JUST DON’T GET IT, AND THAT YOU ALL, OF COURSE, DO.
Marco
Yes, I agree, it was a bit of a self-righteous comment. Thanks for pointing that out.
I am not at all against expressing anger. And I am not so interested in what is “spiritually correct” or “righteous,” as in what works. It seems to me that the way a lot of people, including myself, have learned to express our anger doesn’t work too well.
Dave Belden: You write that the way you have learned to express anger does not work that well. Well most “spiritual” people don’t even think about expression or not of anger, they think that ANY form of anger or judgement that someone experiences is unspiritual and ungodly, and that they, in their arrogant glorious saintliness are ABOVE all that, unlike me, who is BELOW them in the hierarchy of humanity.
For some pointers on how to handle anger constructively (which admitedly can be difficult), I refer anyone to the book “Creative Aggression” by George Bach. Although it is mainly a psychological book,there is also a great critique of pacifism and most religious people in that book.
Marco
I hear you, Marco. I started to learn this lesson long ago when my first marriage failed, and I reckoned one of my biggest problems in it had been sitting on my anger and not expressing it, until, of course, it erupted. I had to learn how to own my anger and express it as I went along so it became part of my relating to people. But then I also had to learn how to do it with empathy for the other person or it just alienated them. Repressing anger in order to make peace and get along isn’t something that works well, as far as I can see, nor is it anything that I am hearing spiritually mature people aspire to. What I am hearing more from them is that there are some ways of expressing one’s anger that work better than others. People hate feeling judged, as you express very well in your comment, and if they feel judged by the way anger is expressed towards them they may clam up and get into defensive posture and act angrily back, which may be quite unhelpful, especially if they should be allies, let alone spouses. It’s been hard for me to hear a good number of your angry comments on Tikkun Daily, for example, because I feel judged unfairly by them, my hackles rise, I think you are stereotyping all spiritual or religious people in a certain way, etc. Whereas I imagine you keep reading this blog because you feel in some sense we should be working together. I will see if I can find the book you mention at the library.
Dave Belden:
First you are quite wrong (in your last sentence) that I keep visiting this site because I feel we should be working together. In fact, the OPPOSITE is the case, I keep visiting this site to make sure we DO NOT work together.To make sure you people know that I think most of you are shallow fakes, and that, moreover, you all do a disservice to the Left by promoting non-violence and pacifism, and “love” for enemies. Conservatives and reactionaries deserve no respect and they do not and will not get it from me. And the worst thing most of you promote is pacifism: imagine, some of you even think that the Allied war against Hitler was unjustifiable. And for those of you here who disagree with that last pacifist position, you at least think that that is a respectable position. Whereas I think that such pacifism is insane and discredits the New Left, which otherwise has a lot offer. Since such stupid positions are rampant within the Left, and since your magazine and website is one of the more prominent purveyors of such nonsense, I have often come back here to make sure that the you all know that I think such positions are insane and ignorant. That being said, you may have noticed that I have not come back as often lately, and, furthermore, I will not anymore (except to perhaps exchange with you about that Creative Aggression book), because I have learned it is a waste of time. You people will not change, and I certainly will not.
More in a bit…
OK, I’m back. I would like to mention that one of the other reasons that I used to come back here regularly, before I discovered to my disgust how “spiritual” it was , was that Tikkun was one of the rare sites on the Left that also sometimes printed articles that were not as extreme in their anti-Americanism, anti-Zionism, anti-capitalism..etc… as compared to most of the New left ( like at The Nation or Counterpunch, which represents majority New left opinion). For instance, in 1999, Tikkun printed a fine defense of the NATO intervention in Kosovo, which , as you all recall ,most the Chomskyite Left, in their blindness and insensitivity, were against (it was then that I personally broke from the dominant Left). Of course all the pacifists were against the Kosovo intervention, including all the saints here at Tikkun, perfect dupes of the genocidal fascist Serbs who slaughtered tens of thousands of Bosnian Muslims and Kosovars. And then you wonder why I rage at pacifists…Tikkun also , for instance, clearly takes its distance from the shocking subtle fellow travelling with Hamas and Hezbollah that infests the Left . So congratulations. But all that positive stuff is now outweighed for me here by all the spiritul nonsense that pervades this site so I will not be be coming back. Yes, I hear the applause from you all despite your “loving” hypocrisy, and the feeling of resentment is mutual. I will only exchange with you one last time personally, Dave Belden , if you wish , about that Creative Agression book. And if you wish to do so, e-mail me at macor22@yahoo.com, and we then can do so publicly. Otherwise this is my last post here. Goodbye and good riddance.
Marco
I’m not sure I even want to interject myself in this heated discussion but here goes. We are up against a well-organized, well-funded cabal of thugs who are determined to take this country down for their own personal profit and greed. What shall we do? From my perspective, stomping on heads, having fist fights, taking guns to health care meetings, yelling about second amendment rights, having violent confrontations with each other, will end up separating and polarizing us even more. It will give new meaning to the word “hatred.” Our argument shouldn’t be with each other. It should be with the plutocracy that is running this country.These thugs have succeeded in dividing us—left and right, progressive and conservative, Democrat and Republican when, I believe in the end, we all basically want the same things – a decent job, a liveable wage, the ability to provide for our families, a clean environment, etc.
We need to use our heads. We have to outsmart them, We need to become better organized, better educated to confront the lies, distortions and propaganda of a very cunning corporate agenda. We need to use whatever works to achieve these ends but I happen to believe that violence towards each other–at a time when we need to work together and focus on our real enemy–will not achieve this end. Just my opinion.
If you are afraid that a vote for a progressive third party would lead to more of Bush’s policies, I suggest you look carefully and objectively at Obama’s policies. I think you’ll discover how little they actually differ from Bush’s. Ok, Obama is not pushing to privatize Social Security (as if – I will enjoy watching the Republicans commit suicide with that one). Except for the health insurance reform bill (now we all get the privilege of buying health insurance at market prices from private companies), where, exactly, is the change?
If you google it, Obama has made many changes. He just sort of keeps it to himself. Compared to other presidents, he has implemented many changes. Lots of good things, too, but the big ones didn’t go far enough. For example, about 80% of the people in this country (according to polls) wanted a public option or at least Medicare at 55. Instead we got some good tweaking but the fundamental for-profit system was kept in place and, in fact, strengthened with millions more added and no real cost containment.
People are angry and with good reason. Our wealth inequality is worsening and we are fed up with subsidizing the wealthy so that they can live a grand lifestyle. Take a look at the financial institutions. What did they do for the good of society? What were their accomplishments that they should earn the kind of money they did? NOTHING, except shuffling money from us to them, with fraudulent, deceptive business practices. I’m not railing against the rich. I’m railing at the way they go about becoming rich.