I’m a total supporter of immigration reform that recognizes the impracticality of deporting nearly 12 million people who are in our country without proper documentation. Let’s find a way to bring them out of the shadows. But, I also look at the immigrants who are here WITH proper documentation, who have been working for years – separated from their families, and I implore Congress to consider and honor those people with reform legislation that helps reunite them with those they love.

I’m half Gypsy – half Russian. My grandparents immigrated to this country a very long time ago. Today, my father who suffers from severe dementia, counts on immigrants to care for him every day. The woman who owns the Board and Care facility where he lives spent many years of her life separated from her husband. He worked in the Middle East oil fields while she became an RN (Registered Nurse) here in the United States.

They put in years of difficult work, on separate continents, so that they could eventually live a life that they love, together… an American dream come true. They’re citizens now, with children who have graduated from college and have wonderful careers. They still work harder than most anyone I know, as do the folks who work in the Board and Care homes they manage.

What troubles me, from a justice standpoint, is that our immigration policies keep people who play by the rules separated from their families, for way too long.

For someone who gets to work in the United States legally, with a “green card,” it can take four to seven years before that person can bring his or her family here – let alone for any members of his or her family to be able to work here. We have to change that. If we truly need someone from another country to work here, then we have to allow that person’s family to be here too, within some reasonable amount of time. And yes, we have to provide education, health care, and other basic human services to those whom we call to help us in our country.

Are we a nation of “family values” or do we prefer to keep families apart?

As we start to seriously debate immigration reform, let’s keep families in mind. My family’s life is extraordinarily better because of the wonderful caregivers in my father’s house. Their lives would be extraordinarily better if their spouses and children could also be with them.


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